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Lotus & Leather: Desire as Dharma

Jess Wilder

Sep 14, 2023

Intro series to kink & Nichiren Buddhist concepts.

2-hour live Zoom call, recorded for 14-day replay, sliding-scale $35–$65, max 40 seats.


Discover how Nichiren’s principle bonnō soku bodai (“earthly desires are enlightenment”) turns shame into a compass for beginner kink.


20-min Dharma talk → 40-min somatic practice (breath, chant, micro-bondage self-hug) → 40-min consent games → 20-min Q&A.


Who This is For: Women/Femmes ready to surrender safely and feel life-force re-ignite.


Bring a scarf, not a safe word—yet.

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